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Why You Should Surround Yourself With Hard Truth Tellers

I recently made a video about surrounding yourself with people who support your passion and why that's important and two days ago I did a video on growth mindset versus fixed mindset. This is a follow up to both of those and sort of the missing link because while it's important to learn how to handle negative sentiment from those close to you also still need to be aware of the hard truths they will tell you and be sure not to punish them for giving you the information you need to improve because we want to strive for a growth mindset always. I talk about why I think it's critical to avoid having yes men in your circle or relying on their advice and how you can cultivate and encourage your circle to be hard truthers with you so that you can always rely on their judgement. Also by encouraging yes men, you encourage your friends and family to lie to you and subconsciously you're all probably trusting each other less and less.

Do you aim to surround yourself with hard truthers and what are some ways you keep yourself from falling into the yes man trap? Share with everyone in the comments below!

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flack
I try to be a hard truth teller. To myself and others, when applicable. Doesn’t make you any friends I can tell you.
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Scott Cunningham
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Everyone loves how honest you are until you're honest with them 😉
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flack
Scott Cunningham, oh for sure. It is a balance though. There’s a point where you should just shut up. Take into account where the person is emotionally and pick your moment. Tact is a good skill to pair with honesty
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Scott Cunningham
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flack, I fully agree. That's why I said in the video that the person wanting the advice is the person the responsibility really falls on in how they react to hard truths. If they always react poorly they're telling you that it would be much easier for you to lie.
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flack
Scott Cunningham, oh for sure. That’s something i work on all the time. Swallowing the bitter pill and letting it do it’s work. But not many people feel like that it seems . Self honesty and the self awareness that comes with it is one of the most useful skills a person can cultivate.
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Scott Cunningham
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flack, Yeah it's something I am always trying to improve on
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